THE HOLIDAYS ARE NEAR!

It's that time of year again. THE HOLIDAYS. And if you think this year will be any different, well you're wrong. Get ready for the oh-my-gosh-why-can't-my-family-be-normal-for-once thoughts. If you're still single, you bet your ass your family is gonna either mock you about it or ask you why you don't have a significant other. Or to make matters worse, they'll ask you about school or your current job situation. And you know one of your uncle's is bound to end up drunk off his ass and your whole family will wonder why they keep inviting him.
Being single during the holiday's can be good and bad. I mean who wants to spend the holiday's alone? Having a significant other can make the holiday's a lot more eventful and can make you forget about the nonsense your relatives bring every year. But being single on the holiday's does have it's perks. I'll name a few.

1. You don't have to try and buy the perfect gift for someone else, saving you time and money, possibly a headache.

2. All that money you would've spent on gifts for your significant other, is all yours.
TREAT. YO'. SELF.

3. You don't have to fake-like that shitty gift your significant other gave you. 

4. You don't have to worry about being embarrassed by your creepy relatives. 

5. Lonely people on the holiday's = best hookups, if that's how you roll. You do you boo boo. 

6. You can eat all you want, with no judgment on how much weight you'll be putting on! Who doesn't love food? The best part is you won't have to share any left overs.

7. No awkward questions about marriage or babies.

8. Best of all, you get the whole bed to yourself and no interruptions when it comes to your holiday hibernation. 

SEE YA NEVER :(

This past week, on campus, I saw the most handsome guy ever. After making some intense eye contact for about four seconds, while we walked past each other, I realized I would probably never see him again, for the rest of my life. I mean I hope I do, but what if it happens again, and it's just another long stare between us, no actual contact. 

I was with someone and so was he. I wonder if we were both alone if either one of us would even try to approach the other. It sucks not knowing what could've happened but I guess that's what I get for being too scared to even initiate a friendly conversation, I mean it's not like I was gonna ask him to marry me or father my children. LOL. 

When it comes to situations like this, I feel like we should just go for it. Why not? What's the worse that could happen? I mean they could ignore you, but honestly, most people love the attention and will appreciate your willingness to talk to them. I know I would. 

Sometimes I wish people would just come up to me and talk to me. Nowadays it's all about hiding behind a screen and waiting for a dreadful reply. I mean think about it, if you go up to someone in person, you can tell right away if they're into you or not by their body language and what they have to say. Now if you add them on Facebook or follow them on Twitter, it might be centuries before either of you talk to each other. And if it ever does happen you can't really tell how a person feels through text, it's not as personal. There's also that chance of you being left on read or delivered, both equally horrible. 

So take it from me, just go up to him/her before you never see them again. Nothing bad can come from it, just go for it, give them a little wink and see where it goes from there.